by: Sr. Mai-dung Nguyen,OP

Tattoos have recently gained immense popularity, with many individuals choosing to have them inked on various parts of their bodies, especially their arms. When I spend time with others, I often ask about the meanings behind their tattoos, provided they feel comfortable sharing. I've found that people are usually excited to open up about their tattoos, eagerly recounting the stories and significance attached to them.

These tattoos often symbolize important aspects of a person's life, such as meaningful Bible verses, crosses, or beloved plants and flowers. Some also serve as heartfelt tributes to cherished pets; for instance, a tattoo of a playful cat might bring back treasured memories for its owner. After sharing their stories, it’s not uncommon for them to express an interest in getting additional tattoos.

Since tattoos are typically permanent and hard to remove, I sometimes wonder whether they've considered having them removed later. It’s quite possible that those who have tattoos don’t think about removal at all. If they do contemplate it, they might focus more on the inspiration that led them to get the tattoo in the first place. Ultimately, their choices reflect a deep appreciation for the art itself and a desire for these symbols to be a lasting part of their lives and identity. I've come to understand that people often choose tattoos because they want something they love to be integrated into their lives through this artwork.

The tattoo reminds me of the powerful quote, “See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.” (Isaiah 49:16). This verse beautifully illustrates that God has engraved us on God’s hands, signifying that God doesn’t want us to fade or disappear. God desires for us to be vital participants in God’s life and mission, particularly when God calls us to grow closer and share that mission with the world.

Reflecting on my vocational journey, I recognize that I spent too much time worrying during my discernment. I questioned whether I could commit to this calling for the rest of my life, worried about whether I had the right gifts and talents, and wondered if I was holy enough. I wished at that time I could embrace my calling with the same enthusiasm someone shows when getting a tattoo—focus on the inspiring moment of the call and its inherent beauty rather than worry about how time might change or distort it. I now understand the importance of sharing my vocational call with confidence and excitement, whether it’s with friends or strangers. Keeping it to myself only led to inner struggles and delayed my ultimate "Yes" to God.

A vocational call is both a deep desire and a divine summons from God. We are like the tattoo that God has engraved on God’s hand. When you and I trust God and recognize the call to discern our vocation, remember that it is not just a work of art God has crafted for us to share God’s mission; it is also a profound way for God to be an integral part of our lives. Embrace this calling with confidence and joy!

As you reflect on your own experiences of being called, recognize the powerful desire God has for your life. Embrace your calling as a remarkable opportunity to grow in faith and trust that God is always by your side. If you feel this connection, reach out to us to begin a conversation about how we can help you discern your path.  Be sure to check out our Become a Sister webpage to learn about ways to discern your call and to learn more about us.  Also, we have a free Zoom and See retreat this February 27-28, where you can engage with other women who are boldly exploring God’s call in their lives. Click hereto register online. Together, let’s transform our calling into a defining aspect of our lives and confidently share with one another our experiences of how God has been engraved in our hearts.